Closing off 2016

Merry Christmas!

As 2016 comes to a close (in exactly 16 days), let us all sit back and ponder on the year passed. Raise of hands how many of you checked off most of your new year's resolution? Yes, I see some hands...some sheepish grins too...come on don't be shy...that's it?...okay. Haha.

It's cool, I didn't raise my hands either. Another new year is coming so it's time to re-make or add on to your list! But before we do, lets reflect a little shall we?

2016 has been the most uncertain for me in my 26 years of life. Even when i was in Poly and totally regretting my diploma choice, it wasn't as uncertain as it is now. Perhaps age was a factor. The woes of a 17 year old versus a 26 year old are varsely different. With age comes a new set of worries, financial worries, worries of not living up to your aging parents' standards, worries of how your peers are soaring high while you are still flying low. You could say I'm having a mid-twenties crisis. (Is there even such a thing?) What have I achieved since graduating university, I asked myself. Career-wise, I have a very fulfilling job as a financial planner. I find joy in educating my clients on financial matters, and it delights me to no end when clients becomes my good friends. Although, yes, I am not a high-flyer like how most of my friends in the insurance industry are, but I approach all clients with a heart to serve and to make sure they are as well protected as they can be. And because of that, my heart is full. :)

As I mature, I find that my circle of friends gets smaller, but each one of them are all dear friends. It's definitely a case of quality over quantity. I have different groups of girlfriends that though we do not meet everyday, but when we do, it's like no time has past. We discuss various topics from work, to life, to boys, and about how we should always strive for self-improvement. I am blessed with close girlfriends around me that adds to my intellect every time I talk to them. They never fail to educate me and let me see things in new perspective, and vice versa. To all my lovely friends, know that I appreciate you and I love you :)!

Through all the uncertainties that 2016 has given me, I am hopeful for a bright and fulfilling 2017!

Only a few days left in 2016, if this year hasn't been your year, have no fear! (Hey, it rhymes!) You are alive, you are here, and you can do so much more :)

First thing I'd like to add to my new year's resolution is to write more. Cheers!


Peace out,
Emily Tan